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12 Money Saving Tips For Parents

So many ways to save money along your parenting journey

Melanie Wegener

The transition to becoming a parent is no small feat. From the time that we learn that we are pregnant to when our baby is finally in our arms, we have already begun accumulating the many things we need. For many couples, simply the journey to get pregnant can be fraught with much anguish and cost.

Children are expensive, no doubt about it, but they don’t have to be extravagantly so. I often read articles that attest to the hundreds of thousands of dollars that it takes to raise a child from birth to eighteen. I believe that with intentionality, goal setting and some savvy habits, you can raise wonderful children at a fraction of the cost.

Here Are 12 Money-Saving Tips:

1. Stop Before Buying New Items

Babies grow quickly. Although they need somewhere to sleep and clothes to wear, keep in mind how long they will be using the items and whether there might be other siblings coming along after. This can help keep costs down if you acknowledge the short season that infanthood is. If you choose to buy new, you may be able to sell the items once you are finished with them to get back some of the cost.

When pregnant, it can be tempting to go out and buy all the things. These add up, especially if you want matching items, brands or colour schemes. It pays to ask around with family and friends to see if they are getting rid of baby gear (especially bassinets, cots, change tables and high chairs). When we were expecting, we were kindly given lots of things. We gratefully took it all, and tried it out to see if it was ok before heading to the shops. After trying to manoeuvre a very stiff pram for six weeks, hubby and I agreed that we needed to invest in a new, easy push one. We did the same with a baby carrier as there had been lots of improvements in the ten years since the old one had come out.

While you need to take care with buying some second-hand things for safety (like carseats or cot mattress), other items like a baby bath can easily be found for free. Search Facebook Marketplace, Gumtree or Pay it Forward sites to find things that others want to get rid of. I have recently discovered the Buy Nothing Project which are amazing and can save you big bucks.

It can help to realise that you don’t need to buy all the things. Some items are necessary (like a cot and pram), others are useful (like wraps, carriers and breastfeeding pillows) and some are mostly unnecessary (rockers, Bumbo seats, jumpers, walkers). Recognising what is a need and what is a want is important, as this will not only save you money but help reduce the chaos in your house when you have too much stuff.

2. Opt For Gender Neutral

It is popular these days to do the gender reveal party and buy specific items and colours ready for that baby. If you plan to have more children, try not to get too carried away buying one colour or type of item. Find things that can be used for both genders, with the exception of clothes.

I would recommend the same with ordering personalised products for your child. Doing so limits the life of the product and prevents it from being reused with their siblings or donating it later on. Do they need a backpack with their name printed on it, or a towel? Can you buy a set of labels to put on drink bottles and lunch boxes rather than buying a personalised set? This is as much an environmental consideration as a financial one.

3. Consider Switching To Cloth Nappies

This may be an unpopular suggestion but I’ve included cloth nappies because I have used them since my eldest was one week old. I grew up with my mum using the old-style cloth nappies and remember helping her to fold them. Nowadays, modern cloth nappies are readily available. I spent money on a quality brand as I wanted them to last and be easy to use. I asked around for suggestions and was overwhelmed with all the options. My friend of three boys (including twins) used Grovia and raved about them. I figured that if she could do it despite the craziness of raising three under three, then I could too!

I bought a range of day and night nappies, swim nappies and cloth wipes. They were still going strong after 5 years. It was a big upfront cost (around $800) but paid this while I was still working. I loved not having to run to the shops weekly for nappies or to constantly fork out money for them. I am naturally home a lot more now so didn’t mind putting on three extra loads a week. I never have problems with stains and simply washed and line dried. Using cloth wipes at home saved on buying baby wipes and were a lot softer on baby’s sensitive skin. Many councils today provide incentives to use reusable nappies and sanitary items. It might be worth looking at your local council to see what rebates they offer. If they don’t, you could ask them whether they would consider doing so.

I admit that I kind of gave up on cloth nappies by the time my third child was just over one. It was just another thing to wash, dry and manage. I decided to sell them, knowing that we would be starting to toilet train soon enough. I am proud that we did cloth nappies and kept so many disposables out of landfill. I have now sold these to recoop some of my initial cost, though unfortuntely wasn’t as much as it would have been had I sold them 6 years ago. Back then, the resell value was quite high. Listings would be sold super fast. Now the modern cloth nappy market is huge and many parents are opting to give them a go. This makes secondhand sales less attractive.

In addition to cloth nappies, I would encourage parents to switch from paper towel to cloths. This reduces our environmental impact and saves having to go to the shops to stock up. You can buy these cheaply online or in most shops and simply throw in your washing machine with tea towels.

4. Utilise Op Shops

As a parent, I find buying new items for my children is expensive and limiting, especially for boys. Where I can, I try to check the op (thrift) store first before resorting to store bought. Almost all of my children’s shoes have come from op shops and they wear branded ones for a fraction of the price that they would cost new. I do the same for clothes, books and toys. I love finding a bargain and am getting pickier with what I will bring home too.

Buying second hand reduces the impact on our planet and contributing to landfill. We can buy things off season and find unique items not sold in the stores. My kids enjoy browsing the racks and like to spend their pocket money sometimes. I love to donate regularly and keep a box by the door to put things we no longer want in.

Recycle superstores like Savers have a large range. As a busy parent, this can save you time because you a guaranteed to find items organised by size and plenty of stock. These are also more expensive. Smaller church run op shops often save money on rent and their purpose is not making a profit. They are often run by volunteers rather than paid staff so have lower overheads. I find that visiting a combination of both is a good way to go.

5. Buy Secondhand And Resell Later

One great way to save and even make money as parents is to buy things second hand, and when you’re done, sell them on again. I often list things higher than what I purchased them for, especially if I feel like I got them for a bargain! Kids toys are brilliant for this. I regularly ask my four-year old if he has anything he’d like me to sell. He will round up a few things, I’ll take photos and list them, and he helps to collect the money from the person at the door or under the mat if we’ve been out. This is a great way to keep the clutter under control, only keep the toys that they really love and play with, and fund future toys. It is an easy way to teach kids about the value of money.

6. Swimming Lessons

Swimming is an important skill and one that we need to have, especially here in Australia. If you have a backyard pool, I would definitely recommend getting lessons for your child from a young age. However, if that is not the case, I feel like there can be pressure to enrol your child in lessons as a baby. Much of this is water familiarisation. I took my baby for fortnightly casual swims at my local swim centre. This saved $10-15 each visit. Once he was older, I enrolled him in lessons with a qualified instructor. I don’t mind paying the term fees now that I feel like he is ready to learn and become independent in the water. Like much of parenting, this is a personal choice that no one else can make for you. It is worth considering whether there is an alternative to what seemingly everyone else is doing.

We now do weekly lessons and yearly VACSWIM. My kids are a little older, we can afford it and it is important to me that my children know how to swim for safety. Once they are able to swim independently, I will stop weekly lessons, opting for holiday block lessons and VACSWIM.

7. Reduce Activities And Classes

Following on from swimming lessons, I feel that there is definitely pressure to keep your children busy and give them lots of opportunities to engage in activities from a young age. Many children and parents are tired from over scheduling. I would recommend waiting to enrol your child in organised sport until they show real interest or skill in a particular area. For most children, this will be once they have started school, some not until the age of seven.

Young children need time to play in their backyard, playgrounds and explore the local creek. They enjoy picnics, playdates and time at the beach. They want to climb trees, make cubbies and not be hurried or rushed. There is new popularity forming around creating a slower childhood. Not only is this good for children, it reduces time spent in the car and spending money on petrol, entry fees, registration, tuition fees, uniforms or costumes.

When you feel that your child is ready to start a sport or join a club, limit what they can do. They do not have to do swimming, tennis, basketball and learn guitar all at once. Decide how many nights a week you want to be at practice and games, and work back from there. Let them choose one sport or hobby and you can always increase this.

Schedule free time into their week that can be spent outside where possible. You don’t need to give them every opportunity that presents itself You are allowed to put boundaries in place to protect your time.

8. Find Free Or Cheap Activities

Activities for young kids can definitely add up! With a little thought and planning, you can save money on the everyday activities and pick special occasions to splurge. I love meeting up other mums at the park. I’ll bring a thermos and coffee sachets to drink. We have play dates at each other’s houses. We go on little hikes and stop to look at the view together. We spend time at the library borrowing dozens of books, cds and DVDs, and visit the toy library there too. I go to the beach and watch the kids chase seagulls, build sand castles, splash in the water and search for special shells. I look for discount vouchers (such as the Entertainment book) or special days advertised on social media (our local play café offers pay your age day which is great with young children). Some churches have free play cafes too.

9. Give Present Ideas

Create a list of ideas for your child’s upcoming birthday or Christmas. This could include ideas of clothing pieces and their current size or toys that you have wishlisted or seen in a store. It could also be money towards a bigger item (such as a trampoline, swingset or cubby) or an experience (to the movies, zoo, drive in, waterpark or bowling).

This doesn’t mean people must get something off the list and it won’t work for all families. However, if you have taken the time to put ideas together, and people insist of buying annoying plastic toys, I give you permission not to keep it. Quietly exchange it or regift to someone else. You get to choose what comes into your house. This saves you money on buying these items for your children.

10. Put A Cap On Present Spending

Once your child starts school, they will begin to get more invitations to birthday parties. While this is lovely, this also gets expensive. Decide on a limit for presents early on and stick to it, unless it is a close friend where you may want to spend more. I have a gift cupboard where I collect generic things throughout the year. They may be things on clearance or sale, or simply clever little ideas that kids would like to open for a present. Another idea is to have a standard idea for a girl and a boy that you give each time (eg a pencil case filled with nice new stationery, a piece of sports equipment or a water pistol). Alternatively, a block of chocolate written with permanent marker (instead of a card) and a $10 note stapled to it.

This isn’t about being cheap, but rather acknowledging the huge amount of parties that kids are invited to these days, and putting a limit on how much it will cost you each time. As a parent hosting a birthday, you can make life easier for everyone by having a ‘fiver’ party. Each guest simply brings $5 in a card to put towards buying something bigger. It limits the stuff that comes into the house and takes the pressure off other parents to spend up big. I feel that either we can follow the lead of some people to spend huge amounts, or we can set a new standard of what is ok.

11. Public Vs Private

Like everything else, paying for private is a personal choice. If you have certain preferences, paying extra is the way to go. However, if you are looking at ways to save money while bringing up children, this is an area to do it. We opted for public for birth. I wanted midwives through the group practice and was keen to have a student each time.

The perks of staying in hospital longer were appealing for private but I couldn’t justify the money. I have had three public hospital births. Rather than staying in for four or five days afterwards, I have booked in nights away leading up to the birth so I am rested as much as possible. While there were some minor things that may have been different in private vs public, I do not regret my decision at all, and enjoyed coming home with a baby without a bill.

We have decided to enrol our children in public schooling for primary school for similar reasons. Whilst there are some amazing perks for private schooling, we deliberately moved into an area that has wonderful local schools. We are planning to move our children into a local private school once we have paid off the mortgage, and have their names down already. I don’t want the pressure to afford school fees and uniforms when I will be home looking after their younger siblings to start with.

Once all children are at school, my capacity to work will increase and our income will go up. Our house requires more updates and renovations, so I am allowing some wriggle room to pay for that along the way. We know many families who are very selfless and put their children through private schooling from the start, and simply miss out on other things. I really admire this! We are going to do what feels right for our family and allows us to feel comfortable about our budget.

12. Choose Inexpensive Holidays

Once you have children, it is not as easy to travel interstate and overseas. It is not impossible, and we have certainly done both, however it becomes a lot harder to do. Many families switch to camping while they have young children. Once you are set up with some gear, it is fairly inexpensive to do. We enjoy camping at caravan parks on powered sites, and also at national parks. Children love to ride their bikes around, meet other kids and roam the extra space.

We have done easier holidays in cabins or AirBnB. The best one was with my parents as we shared the cost and they kindly helped out with the kids. We go away a few times a year kid free where we can. This allows us precious time alone as a couple, lets us experience hotels again and helps grow resilience in our children to stay with other people.

There are so many ways to save money while raising young children.

Whilst there can be pressure as parents to provide your child with endless opportunities and experiences, know that this doesn’t have to be the case. Children want to spend time with you and know that you care and don’t need all the things that we feel like we need to give them.

Prioritise what your values are, align these with your goals and work to achieve them. Check in regularly with your partner or find a friend to be accountable with. Like everything in parenting, do what works for your family and you can make changes along the way as your situation grows and changes.

8 Responses

    1. You’re so welcome. Appreciate the feedback!
      I use GroVia 🙂 it’s not the cheapest but they are pretty amazing.
      You can use the code Mel8 for a discount on your first order if that helps ?

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